My story continues again....
My first job started in Aug 2000. Before started work, like most graduates, I went for a holiday, but it was with a group of my Chinese Orchestra teammates in polytechnic to have an exchange program in Melbourne. It’s a great, memorable and nice experience. First time taking a long time flight, first time to Australia where it was having a winter season over there. Although there was no snow, but it was my first time experiencing the cold weather as compared to the long-time hot weather here in Singapore. And also, haha, after coming back to Singapore, it was also my first time got my chickenpox after so many years. Many of us got the chickenpox. It’s all started from a friend got in Melbourne and most of us who had not got it all got it. But I started my job not long after my chickenpox. Leading a normal life during my working life. After a year, I started to pursue my degree, part time studying. It was hard. No kidding! Around after another half year, I decided to leave my first job and very fast, I found my second job.
I worked in a site. Over there, I got to know my close piggy friend and one more person. A person whom had creates happiness, sadness, bitterness, and knowledgeable moments in my life. This was my first relationship. I knew him before my piggy friend, if I’m not remembered wrongly. Hmm. What can I say about this guy??? He is a good man; just having some bad temper, may be getting better now. Who knows? He was good to me, taught me a lot of things, which I may not really know anything about yet. He taught me how to protect myself when walking among a crowd. He taught me how to play darts. He taught me how to taste wine, appreciate wine. He is a good drinker. He taught me many things which some of them may only appear in my mind when I come across them. He brought a lot of happy moments in my mind too. We were mostly going shopping; watching movies, go to the beach, sometimes to pubs with him to watch him play darts (only a few times, can be counted using one hand), etc. All these were what typical couples will do and these accompanied us within the 2 and half years of relationship. I like the feeling of playing darts too. Can feel a sense of satisfaction when I hit the ‘red dot’. Just don’t really like the smoky smell in the pubs. Used to now but just don’t like. But will still go to these areas no doubts. One of the things I don’t like him or anyone doing is smoking. It’s bad for health. If is seeing others smoking, I will not want to say anything. But for the people I cared for, I will hope he or she can quit. My family members no one is a smoker. Only one whom I knew and had passed away: My grandpa. May be he was stress, may be he was having difficulties in quitting, may be… a few times I got angry because he smoked. At first he promised not to smoke in front of me or when with me in the beginning of our relationship. But a few times when we were together at his gatherings with his friends, he would smoke with his friends. May be his ego had caused him to forget his promise, may be… hmm… now not having the mood to continue to write anything. But want to tell my piggy friend one thing: I’m happy about you finding someone you love now. Stay on with the happiness. I have let go a lot of feelings. I think you know about it. But one reason why I wrote in the blog about this relationship is to leave a good memory of a person rather than anything else. I find that it’s much more easier and happier to like or love someone than to hate someone. It is more tired and energy wasting. So continue to love your ah dar, ok, piggy?... Jia You!
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My first job started in Aug 2000. Before started work, like most graduates, I went for a holiday, but it was with a group of my Chinese Orchestra teammates in polytechnic to have an exchange program in Melbourne. It’s a great, memorable and nice experience. First time taking a long time flight, first time to Australia where it was having a winter season over there. Although there was no snow, but it was my first time experiencing the cold weather as compared to the long-time hot weather here in Singapore. And also, haha, after coming back to Singapore, it was also my first time got my chickenpox after so many years. Many of us got the chickenpox. It’s all started from a friend got in Melbourne and most of us who had not got it all got it. But I started my job not long after my chickenpox. Leading a normal life during my working life. After a year, I started to pursue my degree, part time studying. It was hard. No kidding! Around after another half year, I decided to leave my first job and very fast, I found my second job.
I worked in a site. Over there, I got to know my close piggy friend and one more person. A person whom had creates happiness, sadness, bitterness, and knowledgeable moments in my life. This was my first relationship. I knew him before my piggy friend, if I’m not remembered wrongly. Hmm. What can I say about this guy??? He is a good man; just having some bad temper, may be getting better now. Who knows? He was good to me, taught me a lot of things, which I may not really know anything about yet. He taught me how to protect myself when walking among a crowd. He taught me how to play darts. He taught me how to taste wine, appreciate wine. He is a good drinker. He taught me many things which some of them may only appear in my mind when I come across them. He brought a lot of happy moments in my mind too. We were mostly going shopping; watching movies, go to the beach, sometimes to pubs with him to watch him play darts (only a few times, can be counted using one hand), etc. All these were what typical couples will do and these accompanied us within the 2 and half years of relationship. I like the feeling of playing darts too. Can feel a sense of satisfaction when I hit the ‘red dot’. Just don’t really like the smoky smell in the pubs. Used to now but just don’t like. But will still go to these areas no doubts. One of the things I don’t like him or anyone doing is smoking. It’s bad for health. If is seeing others smoking, I will not want to say anything. But for the people I cared for, I will hope he or she can quit. My family members no one is a smoker. Only one whom I knew and had passed away: My grandpa. May be he was stress, may be he was having difficulties in quitting, may be… a few times I got angry because he smoked. At first he promised not to smoke in front of me or when with me in the beginning of our relationship. But a few times when we were together at his gatherings with his friends, he would smoke with his friends. May be his ego had caused him to forget his promise, may be… hmm… now not having the mood to continue to write anything. But want to tell my piggy friend one thing: I’m happy about you finding someone you love now. Stay on with the happiness. I have let go a lot of feelings. I think you know about it. But one reason why I wrote in the blog about this relationship is to leave a good memory of a person rather than anything else. I find that it’s much more easier and happier to like or love someone than to hate someone. It is more tired and energy wasting. So continue to love your ah dar, ok, piggy?... Jia You!
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posted by ChangedME | 9:41 PM
1 Comments:
silly da jie jie.... u will find ur one dun worry... see how piggy went through all that? Da jie jie is stonger than piggy... but now piggy found ah dar but to be frank things cannot be predicted... i dunno wat is ahead of me juz wanna enjoy every moment with him now... At least i know he truly loves me... thats all piggy wants... Piggy wanna see da jie jie happy too ok? and ur that someone will come to u...
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