Angry and sad!!!
Recently feeling very angry and sad over some pple relationship. Like 1 of my colleagues, lady, that has created some 'friction' between colleagues. I do reflection about myself most of the time when I heard comments from others where I do wrong or so and changed slowly accordingly. But sometimes, I found that pple who comment on others alot but can't really see their own faults are the most saddest kind of pple. Knowing how to comment on pple but yet own self committed the same problems too.
Not only that, talking badmouth behind someone's back is another worst thing. Well, this sad incident happened to me too. The lady colleague talking badmouth or backstabbing me, to my friend about me. I do admitted I have my weaknesses. But sad to say, this lady is worst off than me. Well, I juz dun want to say. But this show clearly to me that she is a '2-head snake'. Really nt worth a friend or even a colleague sad to say.
Angry and sad abt pple that think they are so good in certain things and look down on pple when others are not having the same learning curve on par with them. Each person will have their own learning curve. Some smoother, some steeper. But to some 'yaya' people, they think the people are wasting their time when they learn slow. Crap!!! I'm sure they can learn more stuff as they learn fast but dun have to be so arrogant about this. Sad to know this person is someone whom I know for years, to look down on pple. Fine!!! I admitted I learn things slow but I think it's still nt really a waste of time. At least I learnt from it and that's the most impt process. Juz felt that a arrogant person will only learn their lesson when one day something big happened to them and they can't stand up on their own one day, then they might learn.
I'm really sad and angry recently about these incidents. In fact many more to type, but really getting sadder as I type. Feel like gg for a short holiday or break where I can be away from these crappy issues. Sick to 'cover' my emotions. Juz feel that it's hard to please everyone. But why I have to please others? Not worth lor.... Or will I have a better solutions from anyone?
Not only that, talking badmouth behind someone's back is another worst thing. Well, this sad incident happened to me too. The lady colleague talking badmouth or backstabbing me, to my friend about me. I do admitted I have my weaknesses. But sad to say, this lady is worst off than me. Well, I juz dun want to say. But this show clearly to me that she is a '2-head snake'. Really nt worth a friend or even a colleague sad to say.
Angry and sad abt pple that think they are so good in certain things and look down on pple when others are not having the same learning curve on par with them. Each person will have their own learning curve. Some smoother, some steeper. But to some 'yaya' people, they think the people are wasting their time when they learn slow. Crap!!! I'm sure they can learn more stuff as they learn fast but dun have to be so arrogant about this. Sad to know this person is someone whom I know for years, to look down on pple. Fine!!! I admitted I learn things slow but I think it's still nt really a waste of time. At least I learnt from it and that's the most impt process. Juz felt that a arrogant person will only learn their lesson when one day something big happened to them and they can't stand up on their own one day, then they might learn.
I'm really sad and angry recently about these incidents. In fact many more to type, but really getting sadder as I type. Feel like gg for a short holiday or break where I can be away from these crappy issues. Sick to 'cover' my emotions. Juz feel that it's hard to please everyone. But why I have to please others? Not worth lor.... Or will I have a better solutions from anyone?
posted by ChangedME | 1:57 PM
2 Comments:
ya... sometime this kind of ppl is everywhere, but in fact sometime we will also have the same problem. haha... just like you complaint here~ don't angry, share with you some meaningful thing:
“生气，就是那别人的过错来惩罚自己。”
you can paste this in your office:
"口说一句好话，如口吐莲花；口说一句坏话，如口吐毒蛇。"
"话多不如话少，话少不如话好。"
“静坐常思己过，莫谈闲人是非。”
cheers~
rex
ya lor, so many ppl only know how to blame and say ppl, no mouth to say own. worst is they are my friends many yrs liao but also like that and hurt me so much. never think what they say to me also saying themselves too. I am also so angry and thinking why so many ppl around me are like that, I also reflect and thinking is my fault but same like you, actually not my fault totally!!! why ppl are like that??? not confident in friendship anymore!!!
joyce
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